I'm not sure if I'm lucky or not! DH does do stuff round the house (we do have a cleaner as we both work full time and are out from 7:30am until after 6pm).
However, I feel like I am constantly having to remind him to do things or to finish a task off properly. He has this infuriating habit of saying 'I'll do xyz' and then taking weeks to actually do it (I'm looking at a backyard that desperately needs mowing as I type!
) Or needing to have a rest in the middle of something because 'he's tired'. Boo hoo
He also doesn't seem to understand how stressful it is for me having to 'supervise' him as well as DS - I pointed out to him that there are actually 2 adults and only one child living in this house so why am I doing so much reminding of him?!?! He had a week of working every night as well so ALL the chores fell to me and I got more done in less time
. I used Ruth's ploy of pointing out that my life would currently be easier as a single mum! He has been making a bit more of an effort since then, but I may have to mention it again to keep him on his toes (and get the grass cut!)