Thanks for all the messages and it is great to know others out there with big age gaps with their LOs. And a hi to all those in Scotland! Feels like a friendly place to be here. Love looking at all the pretty fluff although I think I am a 'it has to work well and cheapish and plain' sort of gal really!
Another with a big gap, Cam is nearly 8 and Archie is 2. The gap wil be smaller this time round, A will be 2 and ahalf when baby is born, and I'm far more clued up on lcoth now than I've ever been, not such a good thing for my bank balance!