I tried the camomile tea- it was amazing! The red naddies went back to pink overnight, shock!
But it didn't quite go away entirely, and has crept back by degrees, despite careful tea-washing...
Still doing it though in the hope it will go away. Given up on the shea butter; it's not making any difference. Back on the calendula for now..
Next to try:
Immediate post-poo change (not even leaving it 10 mins as I sometimes do... how lax...slapped wrists all round)
Tea tree (I have some in the house)
pawpaw salve (when I get some money!)
Silk liners (skint- and WHERE do I get THOSE?!)
Any other advice from you nappy goddesses?