Welcome and congrats!
I'm a first time mummy - due in May - and excited to use cloth on our little girl.
I have an embarassingly huge stash, as I started buyuing when we stated TTC and it took us over a year to concieve!
The classifieds on here are great, I found there were better deals and nicer products than on eBay etc.
What I've done is sort of collect a spread of different brands/styles so we can have a play about.
So far my favourites (only going by feel and how they fit my teddy bear) are Motherease Bamboo Sandies, I think they're going to be lovely and soft and comfy on a baby - of course I could be wrong.
I also have a bamboozle stretch and a bamboo Little Lamb, and a whole mix of other bits and bobs. Will happily show you my stash if you want a nosey (and don't mind the tons of photos!)
As for wipes we're going to do cloth too, I liked hte look of the cheeky kit, but I had some nice soft fabric and fleece to use up, so have sewed a ton myself, and bought some delicious smelling CJs Butter cleanser to use in a wipe solution.