I feel the same, I live in a small estuary village and everyone thinks I'm 'weird' in a fond way though (I hope!)
My closest friends use dispicables and disp wipes, bottlefeed etc, and I don't push my views on them or lecture them, they have made their decisions and that's fine by me, but I'm sure they all think I'm making more work for myself when really I'm not at all!
I have a couple of friends who BF and use cloth (boring cloth only), but I guess I am the most 'extreme' with posh cloth, still BFing, co-sleeping BLW and babywearing.
The very best thing is though that my husband is from a 'normal' (if you like) background, i.e Pampers, bottles, Johnson Baby, jars of food etc, but he totally LOVES what I want to do with our children and feels like I have really opened his eyes. he is so supportive and 'into' the ideas I present and I am so pleased!!!