OK here is the pic for Lucy!
She is just gorgeous, as is the nappy, I so need one of them if I get a girl baby! I agree with the others, it will feel different to her and I'd say that you have the waist done up too tight if it is leaving red marks which will make it not very comfy
just keep fiddling - you'll get it right and she'll get used to them.
They are more comfy than plastic dispos in my opinion, I know I'd rather wear cotton knickers than those disposable paper ones - would you? Louis, once he was older, would choose his 'real' nappies over dispos if that makes you feel any better and toddlers are very fussy