hmm yes I think I agree with you!
My boy is a bruiser and on that advice tots would be better for the growing behind! My little girl is as slim as they come (15 months between them and they are virtually the same size width ways!!) but she will probably be out of nappies soon so..... I think the tots have it. I do find them a bit bulky in comparison, but then maybe that is a plus considering what they are used for
I'll PM you now BTW
Thanks for your advice