I only have Chloe in cloth and cant imagine how it would be if there was two. I did however start to feel as you were and took the step of ditching most of our pockets, I just got too fed up with stuffing them. So fitteds and AI2s make up most of our stash and I usually put them together whilst watching TV. Now it's warmer and I can hang the nappies outside it's better as well, I was getting fed up a few months ago of seeing inserts on all the radiators!!
Maybe just cut down a little, cloth in day, sposie at bed/when out or something. And get rid of any faffy nappies. I'm fed up with customs too, and wish I'd never started with them and had just kept it simple and quick, pay for nappies, they arrive the next day but nevermind. It is a kind of hobby I guess, if I werent spending time looking/ordering nappies then I'd just be doing something else.
Anyway sorry you feel like that but maybe just take a few days to get it in perpective and say in a month from now, if you're still feeling this way then start to get rid of them.
HTH xx
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