Thank you all for your encouraging me. I seem to be better with the easyfits, the pop-ins are masive on her, maybe I am adjusting them wrong, will give them another go. The only source of concern for me now is that tilting of the body in bed, the bum is higher than the head. It is normal, since she is wrapped in so much cloth, but for some reason I fear this is not a natural position. Is there a way to remede that?