I do the same as Louise now that their poo is more solid. I've only once put an unrinsed nappy in the machine by accident, and it was gross - I ended up with the solid bits of undigested food sticking to everything.
I use cloth liners, and if it's quite solid I can sometimes just get away with giving the liner a good flick down the toilet.
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