I stuff the pockets and change the newborn nappies but OH is happy with washing (he knows to rinse first and use half a dose of powder) and is happy changing our toddler, but her stash is mainly old Wonderoos and he knows which poppers to use
So he doesn't have a load of different nappies to deal with. He is also ok with night nappies but used to complain that he couldn't get them on right, I'm not sure why. The last time he put on a disposable he said it was awful
I had a c section 7.5 weeks ago so he did the nappy changes for the 1st day (AIOs and pockets), and had no problems. TBH I think cloth is easier than disposables, I just find the tabs on disposables are just not very sticky, one wriggle and they're undone!!