So, after a few days of 'normal' feeding, I thought I was on top of it.
But today he started with some long feeds. At 4pm he started feeding and didn't finish til half ten. By which point I was in pain, exhausted, upset, and feeling like the most useless milk producer ever. I know the last one is illogical, but it's how I felt.
Dh had been at work all day, from v early cos obviously he needed to be first in queue to collect iPhone preorder. I've been at home with 2 kids all day, juggling bored 4yo and starving unfillable newborn.
Anyway, dh went out with a friend after dinner, so I was alone and STILL feeding. Come half 9 I was in tears. Baby frantically feeding. Me not knowing what to do for the best. I threw some things around the kitchen as I cleared up the kitchen with one hand while feeding - was a distraction from the monotony by this point.
And found myself in the cupboard opening a carton of formula. Poor baby screaming like a starved wee banshee by now, I was crying, and just needed to stop him crying.
I was in floods of tears giving it. I didn't want his wee body to have anything in it that wasn't from me, and I failed
I'm so completely gutted by this, I can't tell you. Eventually my dh got home and is now not talking to me cos I was cross at him vanishing for 2 hours when he was supposed to be running 1 mile with a friend recovering from heart attack. You could do ten miles in 2 hours!
I really needed prectical or emotional support and he wasn't here, and I'm feeling so awful about feeding my baby formula. I know formula is hardly toxic waste, but it's not what I want in his body.
Finally the unfillable baby is asleep and I should be too, but all I can do is cry.
ETA: he only took about an ounce of formula in the end. The pathetic wee face looking upat me as if to say 'but mummy, this isn't the right stuff' killed me and I ended up going back to the boob.
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