Bleurgh

@Bugglyboo Certainly! Feel free! All O.k for homebirth here as 37 weeks yesterday but just nothing ready so crossing everything that I have a little more time.

@littlesez I think it's just because of the disorganisation and the awful start to the year that I've not really had time to think about it yet! DH in hospital for the 1st week of the year and now of work sick for 8 weeks, along with me leaving everything until 'after Christmas' now means nothing is done and DH pretty much out of action with regards to helping with anything! Still, I'm sure all will be fine, minimal is my friend this time round definitiely Though, must pack a bag......

I have been so laid back this time i havent bought much at all and i realsied today i havent bought ANY bedding so got a few last minute things to get now

I have a bag packed though coz last time i did it half heartedly then had nothing i needed for 3 days in hospital

Not bothered even doing a room for him everyone is like oh have you got the nursery done? I am thinking what for? he will be in with us anyway

I have been so laid back this time i havent bought much at all and i realsied today i havent bought ANY bedding so got a few last minute things to get now

I have a bag packed though coz last time i did it half heartedly then had nothing i needed for 3 days in hospital

Not bothered even doing a room for him everyone is like oh have you got the nursery done? I am thinking what for? he will be in with us anyway

Thats just how I was with Oscar, mainly because of the house not being habitable until his due date. I still think being laid back contributed to Oscars good birth.

I have been so laid back this time i havent bought much at all and i realsied today i havent bought ANY bedding so got a few last minute things to get now

I have a bag packed though coz last time i did it half heartedly then had nothing i needed for 3 days in hospital

Not bothered even doing a room for him everyone is like oh have you got the nursery done? I am thinking what for? he will be in with us anyway

Thats just how I was with Oscar, mainly because of the house not being habitable until his due date. I still think being laid back contributed to Oscars good birth.

well in that case this birth is gonna be the easiest one ever

I am so over these pains i think most of it is SPD aches and pains but has been going on for a week now sharp stabbing pains, aches here and there wierdness i keep thinking is this it? and then nothing grrrrrrrrrrrrrr i just want NOTHING or full on pain

See and I was like that too The best was when I shouted to Dave my waters had broke, to realise I had just peed on the bathroom floor

:Hohoho: sounds like something I would do !