I'd say do it every 2 or max 3 nights from the time your period stops. Not doing it every night is better to let the sperms build up a bit . Try to relax as if you are tense that won't help and obviously having a big 'O' helps as well
. 2nd babies cna take longer for some reason but try not to worry or get all stressed about it - it will happen when the time is right - I'd be
myself if I had a baby due when your sil does
Are you still BF? Not a reason to stop if you are but can slow conception down and dropping even one feed can help.
I hope you guys are doing well - would love a new pic of Erinae - I bet she is such a cutie! Rémy is a little rocket - lots of fun (but unfortunately forever teething and not sleeping
).
Lovely to see you and good luck with the TTC
for a
soon
let us know how you get on!