I can't help but wonder if I'm doing something a bit wrong, or failing to do something I should be doing, since despite doing baby café when Junior was small and latterly adopting a fairly regular round of groups at local Children's Centres and playgroups he has so far been invited to one birthday party ever. I'm not terribly stressed for my own sake but wonder if the situation needs work for Junior's sake
Bit of background: I moved to where we live a couple of months before Junior was born, so was mostly starting from scratch socially, I was also one of those bookish, bullied loner kids at school so maybe got a slow start in the soft, social skills stakes... I also really miss having access to an academic community, having spent 5/6 years as a graduate student - I am actually really, really bored sometimes by the lack of adult company in my life. Obviously once I can get back to work again (less straightforward than it might be, but should be possible soon) things should get a bit better, but in the meantime, Junior, who is due to start school next Sept has not been behaving well at nursery or playgroups, at worst doing things like hitting other kids with furniture and I do wonder if the sort of socialising he's not getting (ie mixing with one or two contemporaries informally) has contributed or is contributing to the problem? Or maybe not, since before his sister was born 18 months ago he was no trouble to anyone.
Thoughts? Suggestions?
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