Honestly don't worry too much about your DH, as the others have said once baby is here and that is what you are using he'll just get on with it. When we started I had a big set of NB kissaluvs among my varied collection - DH preferred to use these as he knew what to do with them so I left them for him and used the others. Once we got into it he used whatever what there, I always had them sorted / folded / put together before they went away.
Pockets are good for quick drying and you can boost as much as you need. AIOs are easy and don't need anything doing to them. However for a newborn neither are the best option for a lot of people (although I had / have both in my NB collections as they do have thier place). A 2 part system will work much better, a good fitted nappy with a good wrap will be a bomb proof combination for most NB poos
Have a really good look through the forum and the info pages on the site to help get your head around it all - that is half the battle! Then just keep asking us until you have your head around it an know what you want to try!
Kim wrote:Don't do what I did and buy 20 of the same nappy because you like the look of them and then find you don't really like them.
Totally agree with this, when I had my first in cloth I tried to pick up at least 1 of every type and brand that I could so we could find out what worked for us and what didn't!
Good luck, welcome to the site and keep asking whatever you need to @edgedem
Congratulations on your pregnancy too - when are you due?