Thank you for all the replies! My dh isn't bad at doing the changes, I think he wants to be involved which is nice. That's interesting Charlisam, I hadn't realised that disposables have been around for a full generation now. Good on your mum though, how did she find using cloth for a week?
at VelvetSteph and at mr flutterby having pockets and longies but looking for wraps.
So I think a blueberry is definitely on the list, and an UD or WN pocket. I'll also look at Greenkids. I'm not sure about painting a bg to be honest,Hanna, they do look lovely but are not 100% my cup of tea (like Cath Kidston LOL).