just a tip even though it sounds like your doing it, I found with my hemp inserts that it is only now after about 15 washes that they have become absorbant.
Good luck with your bums and I hope you feel more on top soon. I had it with my first and fourth baby and it is horrible. However you will cope and be rather proud that you have.
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