So Oscar isn't great at getting to sleep
He's fine if he's which is how he usually falls asleep, not great I know, now within 10-20 minutes of me leaving him in our bed/moving him to his cot/anything really, he is wide awake crying.this happens from 7pm to 10/11pm until I go to bed and he stays asleep until his night feed.
This happens in the day now as well, 20 minutes of sleep then scream until he gets needless to say I am now red raw and every feed is uncomfortable (never had a great latch but that's another story) he will not take a dummy/bottle and Daddy trying to soothe him results in high pitch screams which we can't have with an almost autistic 4 year old in the next room.
I've just got him off to sleep and put him in his buggy and so far he is still asleep, that a whole hour! So I guess he's associated bedtime with me leaving him so he needs to cry/scream to get me back until I stay. How do I get out of this routine?!! What am I missing? I can't remember Sam doing this so I'm not sure what to do to get him to self soothe? I'm not into crying it out so that's a no go for me Any other suggestions that I'm missing?
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