Niggly Issue with DD
Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2012 6:00 pm
It's not a big deal but I'm having this issue with DD1 (3) where she'll say she wants one thing, and when I say that's fine, immediately start to cry, scream or moan that she wants something else. This happens maybe 10 times a day and I'm finding it very irritating. Not least because it's normally over something so small, KWIM? A few examples from today:
Me: We're going out. Please put your shoes on
DD: OK, can I wear my Crocs?
Me: Yes, that's fine
DD: No! No, Mummy! I don't want to wear my Crocs! I want my sandals!
And
Me: Would you like an apple or a banana for your snack?
DD: A banana
Me: Are you sure?
DD: Yes
When presented with a sliced banana: No, Mummy, I don't WANT this, I want and apple! I want an apple!
And
She was rubbing her eyes during her bedtime story and said she was tired so...
Me: Shall we finish this story tomorrow? Do you want to go to bed now?
DD: Yes Mummy, I'm very sleepy
Up the stairs we go and then...
DD: Mummy, where's my story? Finish my story, Mummy! Please, please, Mummy! (Crying)
I'm sure I'm not helping by not being very consistent in my approach. Sometimes if she changes her mind I let her so this morning she put her sandals on not her Crocs. But a lot of the time I go with what she originally said she wanted. So for her snack this afternoon, I told her she could have a banana or nothing because I'd already cut it up. Does anyone else have this issue? How do/would you handle it? As I said, it's not a big thing but it's one that's adding unnecessary stress to our day.
Thanks, Ladies!
Me: We're going out. Please put your shoes on
DD: OK, can I wear my Crocs?
Me: Yes, that's fine
DD: No! No, Mummy! I don't want to wear my Crocs! I want my sandals!
And
Me: Would you like an apple or a banana for your snack?
DD: A banana
Me: Are you sure?
DD: Yes
When presented with a sliced banana: No, Mummy, I don't WANT this, I want and apple! I want an apple!
And
She was rubbing her eyes during her bedtime story and said she was tired so...
Me: Shall we finish this story tomorrow? Do you want to go to bed now?
DD: Yes Mummy, I'm very sleepy
Up the stairs we go and then...
DD: Mummy, where's my story? Finish my story, Mummy! Please, please, Mummy! (Crying)
I'm sure I'm not helping by not being very consistent in my approach. Sometimes if she changes her mind I let her so this morning she put her sandals on not her Crocs. But a lot of the time I go with what she originally said she wanted. So for her snack this afternoon, I told her she could have a banana or nothing because I'd already cut it up. Does anyone else have this issue? How do/would you handle it? As I said, it's not a big thing but it's one that's adding unnecessary stress to our day.
Thanks, Ladies!