As many of you know I have struggled with Remy's sleep and behavior all his life really. Right from the start he has loathed being mucked around with - nappy changes, clothes changes equal hysterical screaming and always have (we are getting there slowly with this by lots of distraction and getting him to 'help' by holding the wipes etc). I have been reading some stuff on line about high need babies and it seems to describe Remy quite well!
Most say that these kids tend to be quite smart (based on his vocab I'd say this is probably true) and end up as quite driven successful adults - just need to hang on a bit then just hard work now!
There is a US doctor who has written quite a few articles (he has one of these kids!) that I found good to read and that are actually changing how I'm thinking about Remy's behaviors and my response to them. http://www.askdrsears.com/topics/health ... -need-baby
and here is a chart of describing words that he gave that so describe Remy!!
http://www.askdrsears.com/topics/health ... hild-grows
INFANT
alert
intense
draining
demanding
cries impressively
loud
unconsolable
supersensitive
high-touch
TODDLER-CHILD
busy
high-strung
exhausting
spunky
energetic
stubborn
impatient
strong-willed
obstinate
discerning
challenging
expressive
tantrum-prone
interesting
tender
huggable
TEEN-ADULT
enthusiastic
deep
passionate
resourceful
dominating
opinionated
determined
persistent
insightful
fair
sociable
compassionate
empathetic
caring
affectionate
It seems it is fairly normal as well for them to wake a couple of times in the night so I think I need to reprogramme my expectations and just go with the flow a bit more - maybe consider a 2 waking a good night and a 1 waking a fantastic night
I'm going to keep researching and will share any info I find interesting, am hoping it will help me enjoy him a bit more even when he is at his most challenging!
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