Bedtime Routines????
Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 9:51 pm
Well I'd just like to get a handle on what anyone else does for a bedtime routine. I think I am going loopy trying to get Kayleigh down at night.
So I use to feed dinner, then let her play a while, upstairs bath, then dressed for bed, back downstairs for milk, then upstairs for book then put her in her cot at 7:45 pm, then she would fall asleep and I could come downstairs for 8pm or so.
Anyway, ever since she could get on her feet, she became clingy and it has got more difficult. Have tried to follow the same routine, but I can't put her in her cot because she screams and screams. So I am stuck with her lying on my bed (the cot is next to the bed) and I have to stay in the room until she falls asleep or she will stand up and scream. Tonight David has kindly volunteered to take over for me, but that doesn't happen often. My huge problem is that I can end up with a 8pm bedtime because she can sometimes take till 10pm to fall asleep. Now she is walking, she is taking a second nap thru the day again, and she seems to be exhausting herself with all the walking she is doing. At this way of going I can't see her ever moving into her own room (assuming of course David ever manages to finish it).
Considering I am working full time, while David is at home with his parents, Kayleigh and the farm - I am doing most mornings (David does once a fortnight) I do the cooking when I get home from work (and find it difficult enough to come in the door and get things ready in 30 minutes), then I am putting her to bed most nights - it is just exhausting and I don't know how people manage more than 1 child.
All those books that talk about controlled crying etc - has anyone tried it, and does it work?
So I use to feed dinner, then let her play a while, upstairs bath, then dressed for bed, back downstairs for milk, then upstairs for book then put her in her cot at 7:45 pm, then she would fall asleep and I could come downstairs for 8pm or so.
Anyway, ever since she could get on her feet, she became clingy and it has got more difficult. Have tried to follow the same routine, but I can't put her in her cot because she screams and screams. So I am stuck with her lying on my bed (the cot is next to the bed) and I have to stay in the room until she falls asleep or she will stand up and scream. Tonight David has kindly volunteered to take over for me, but that doesn't happen often. My huge problem is that I can end up with a 8pm bedtime because she can sometimes take till 10pm to fall asleep. Now she is walking, she is taking a second nap thru the day again, and she seems to be exhausting herself with all the walking she is doing. At this way of going I can't see her ever moving into her own room (assuming of course David ever manages to finish it).
Considering I am working full time, while David is at home with his parents, Kayleigh and the farm - I am doing most mornings (David does once a fortnight) I do the cooking when I get home from work (and find it difficult enough to come in the door and get things ready in 30 minutes), then I am putting her to bed most nights - it is just exhausting and I don't know how people manage more than 1 child.
All those books that talk about controlled crying etc - has anyone tried it, and does it work?