My three were all different too - and I have to say - owwwwwww to the 3rd degree tear Annette
With Jake I wanted a homebirth but wasn't allowed one (this was nearly 13 years ago) and I managed the pain at home with TENS until 2 hours before I delivered him. I had gas and air in hospital mainly because they made me lie flat on a bed on the monitors
I had an episiotomy *yowch* but gave birth after less than 7 hours labour, and had all the joys of an hour of stitching, then 3 days on the ward before they would allow me home.
With Oz I had a planned homebirth, TENS for the 90 mins until the midwife arrived after my first massive contraction woke me up, then about 20 mins of gas and air helping me stave off delivery until the 2nd midwife arrived
Was all a bit hair raising for the midwife and as soon as her partner arrived he was born in a couple of pushes. 2 hours 45 mins in total! I had a couple of stitches from his chubby little shoulders but the recovery time was just sooooo fast!
With Edward I had another planned homebirth but wanted to use the bath instead of TENS. We also knew he was going to be a BIG baby, as Oz had been 9lb, but nothing like what he turned out to be
This time I was 3 hours 50 mins from start to finish, and spent most of the time with my belly in the bath, just breathing through contractions and laughing/fighting with my OH about names!
I moved to all fours on my bed and just breathing about 30 mins before delivering him which allowed the midwife to realise that he had turned from posterior to anterior presentation.
I honestly felt so relaxed I didn't believe I was really ready to push or that I was fully dilated.
My midwife realised after 1st push that something wasn't quite right, and on doing an internal exam discovered that one of his shoulders was stuck behind my pelvis where he had turned
I was SO lucky to have had such an experienced midwife in the situation, because she had to manually pull his shoulder round into the correct position and talk me through pushing to deliver him as fast as possible.
Somehow she managed all of this, including her partner not being able to find his heartbeat, without me getting worried in the slightest and he was delivered in 2 pushes -
all 10lb 13oz of him
Somehow I managed the fast delivery of my mahoooosive baby without the need for any stitches at all
I was totally shattered afterwards, and OH said that he had been scared witless during the delivery, but I have photos from 20 mins after giving birth where we all (Me nursing Edward, OH, both midwives, and my cat) sat on the bed drinking tea and eating jaffa cakes.
If I have any more, unlikely, I will want more homebirth loveliness!