Bad sleep habits!
Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:41 am
So for the first time since Chloe was born we've actually mastered A. Putting her to bed before we come to bed and B. Getting her to go straight back to sleep when she wakes up for a feed at night. You see I'd been hearing "keep the room dark" and not realising that people often meant keep the room pitch black. Once I did this my world changed BUT chloe is now waking every 2.5 hours at night I had been feeding her thinking this was what she was after but having read a bit in th baby whisperer I've now worked out a lot of this is bad habit and her just being a little git as she's not actually hungry and can be subdued by the usual walking her around etc... Which if she were hungry this wouldn't happen. Only problem is she refuses point blank to go to sleep and every time we put her back in her crib she screams again. I'm despeate not to just feed as I feel that I'm just making a rod for my own back! When she wants to sleep she has no problem settling herself so it's not that! This last half hour has been the first time I haven't just fed her as she'd never before woken up just for the sake of it so had presumed it was a growth spurt but it's been the same since new years eve and i'm so exhausted to have only had 2.5 hours sleep at a time. Plus after 4am it changes to pretty much every hour! We get her to bed between 7.30 and 8. She's then up around 10.30 then 1,3,5,and then at 6 I give up! Someone please help as this is killing me constantly feeling like I don't want to and can't do this anymore! (p.s there's no connection with her going to sleep earlier and starting to do this as she started waking more regularly before we started to get her to go to sleep earlier! I don't think it can be a growth spurt as she doesn't take that much feed when I do feed her and she goes perfectly 3 hours between feeds during the day! My biggest worry is she's literally drinking me dry at the moment and because I'm not getting any sleep my breasts don't feel like they're producing enough food for her! I've given up listening to the screaming so am feeding her but am trying to get her to take a full feed now so have turned on the lamp and yet all she now wants to do is sleep! HELP ME PLEASE BEFORE I SEND HER TO LIVE WITH CLOTHMAMA! P.s sorry for the long post p.p.s I already tank her up at night with her final feeds being 2 hours apart. Now i'm worried that it was hunger all along and am therefore wondering if I should use a formula feed at night just to top her off... Thoughts please. p.p.p.s not normally a rambling idiot! thanks for having the patience to read this far!