Although I am currently feeling relaxed and non-stressed, due to LO finally being asleep and a little glass of , I really need help / support / advice ...
My 9 month old ds is up at least every 2 hours each night. Despite my current relaxed feelings, this is killing me. This pattern has been going on for about 3 months, before then he slept maybe 4 hours, fed, 3 hours, fed, 2 hours, fed, etc. He would tend to fall asleep but was younger and I was told that was ok to do? Have been told by people since that it isn't a good idea... He had even slept through a few times but it stopped when he got a cold and hasn't come back. During the last 3 months he had a cough for a month or so (which meant he sicked up all his last feed and tea), a virus and has got 3 teeth (with 3 on the way) in that time, which I'm assuming haven't helped him to sleep. He doesn't really nap during the day, although for a few weeks I managed to get him to nap by lying down and leaving him there.
I think if you all told me yours were the same, I'd just get on with it as I really don't want to complain about stuff - he's fantastic and I'm so lucky he is my son! I feel incredibly fortunate to share my life with him so really want to take the rough with the smooth. But if it's possible to sleep more, that would be amazing as I'm in a way most people can't understand. But I'm assuming a lot of people here *do* get it!
I really couldn't CIO with him or CC. He doesn't really cry much, so when he does it's serious bananas... if he's whingey moaning trying to have his own way crying I can identify that and ignore it when that's appropriate.
At the moment I'm trying to stay awake during feeds and put him back down in his cot each time, instead of bringing him to bed, so at least dh and me can *not* have bad backs when we wake up in the morning. He isn't settling himself though, and screams himself into a state if he's put down without being totally asleep. I've wondered if this has something to do with me not him to sleep? Am trying to break that too as I think that's contributed to the problem
So tonight we had tea *way* earlier than normal, he was in bed nearly 2 hours earlier than normal and hasn't taken quite as long to settle (just over an hour, instead of a few hours). He didn't nap today till 4 though, and then for only 20 mins or so. I'm planning on getting a seriously early night so I've got some energy to deal with him overnight.
Please share your experience with me so I can learn?! Sorry to have written so much, but I've stopped telling people what nights are like as I feel people are judging me and it's making me paranoid....
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