~My boy also never really had a rash with disposables and now has it occasionally. Mainly if he is teething and if I sometimes leave poo for too long.
Try to change a wrap every nappy change to let it dry. I noticed my ds would be a little red on the thigh s IF i DIDN'T.
Nappy free is good although not for us as ds is walking all over the house and has peed on nearly everything now!!
Try changing more often and definitely experiment with night combo. Wool is great and you can get it cheaply off classified. I haven't tried fleece so can't comment. In my mind it can make things too hot:/ As mentioned before try adding a bamboo booster in front of the hemp one.
We don't really use nappy creams but If I do I try to leave it for a few minutes, let it absorb and then put the nappy on, so it doesn't stick to the nappy.
I hope it helps! Good luck
sorry for bad typying, ds is sitting on my lap
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