It might be different in Denmark but have never had the need to make a birthplan. The midwifes listen to the one giving birth and the dad usually just try to stay supportive and out of the way. I have never heard of anyone who gave birth and the course being like you describe
Midwifes offcause markes calls that are nescessary to the moms and babys health but other than that its pretty much up the mom to be
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