I think it's great that you want to carry on despite the difficulties, hope you can find something that works for your DD! (Cute name by the way
) Stripping might help, and wool/fleece as well because they'll let the nappies breathe a bit more. A couple of times I've checked Lili's nappy just before going to bed around midnight and thought it was quite wet and might need changing in the night (she still wakes up to
), but next time I checked found it was practically dry again because the moisture was able to evaporate.