Ok, update it is, you asked for it!!
I have a ton of flannel/bv wipes in a small basket on top of the toilet. The nappy bucket now lives under the sink which is next to the loo (I think at the time of my original post the bucket was outside the back door, but now we only have 1 lot of night nappies so we have a smaller bucket). Tallin uses the wipes when he takes his night nappy off and I use them for wee, AF and (sorry if this is TMI) I use tp for the first wipe after a poo and then cloth if more wiping is needed

No one else uses them to my knowledge. We have a macerator on that toilet so I haven't suggested the boys use them simply because if they dropped them in the toilet by accident we'd have a very messy situation!!!
I'm finding we don't often need to buy tp, I buy a large pack maybe once or twice a year I think, that's for 5 of us (although dh is out during the week), with 4 of us home full time, but I am the only female in the house. And it's so much, erm, fresher feeling to wipe at AF (and ovulation time iygwim

) with a dampened cloth wipe than tp.
Wow, nothing like revealing all before b'fast on a Monday morning