So we are having a lot of trouble with Martha having a tantrum about everything. Latest this morning is that she wanted to take her new sunglasses to school, I said no, cue tantrum. This was after she had insisted she wanted to wear knee socks despite it being the hottest day of the year so far, and that she needed to take suncream to school (we use the all day long stuff). She later had a fit because I wouldn't iron her a cardi to take with her, and made her take a jumper instead (which of course she won't wear all day).
We also have tantrums about what she will and will not wear, hot little tears running down her face if you dare to suggest something she doesn't want - yesterday she had a meltdown because I'd suggested that we go upstairs to put her new skirt on to go out in and she didn't want to wear it. I'd gone off upstairs and so DH was left with this wailing child and no earthly idea why she was crying.
He is off work at the moment and he says that every morning and every afternoon before and after school she will cry about something. PArtly it's because she thinks she's in charge and will get in trouble if, for example, she doesn't take suncream when she has been told to. But partly she's just difficult .
On Friday they have non uniform day and they have to wear red white and blue - Martha has a lovely outfit that would do brilliantly but the skirt is patchwork, from a distance it looks red and blue but up close there are a few other colours on the patches. I just know we will have a massive argument about it and I am dreading the discussion!
Any advice? I want to help her see that her life would be less stressful if she just let us make some of the decisions........
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