My 4.5 yr old daughter often goes into her bedroom and shuts the door to play by herself. She is quite happy to do so, and in fact we have encouraged her to do it when things are escalating with her younger brother, so she can get some space from him rather than it turning into a fight. However increasingly of late I go in to see what she's up to and she is sitting on the bed, staring into space, sucking her thumb. Twice in the past few days I have gone in and found she has shut the curtains and gone to sleep. Sometimes she doesn't go into her room but just curls up on the sofa and sucks her thumb, I ask her why she isn't playing and she just grunts at me like a surly teenager!
She is not overtired, she sleeps really well at night, usually for 11.5-12 hrs solid and seems bright and cheery when she wakes in the morning, I don't see her yawning all day either.
I have been getting cross with her over it, which is not a great way to deal with it, I know. I think in the back of my mind it worries me that she is depressed, I used to spend huge amounts of time lying on my bed being depressed as a pre-teen and teenager and I hate the idea that she might feel that way at her age.
Does anyone know if it is "normal" at such a young age to want to spend so much time doing, literally, nothing, and by herself as well?
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