DS2 is currently in utter meltdown mode because i said no to a friend coming to tea with no notice.
I shop weekly and plan meals out for the week so i dont over buy food and waste it.
If the kids want friends over then it has to be planned in advance... i.e. If they ask me this week, i will say yes but we'll do it next week so i can buy something kid friendly for tea. (I do feel bad when children come over and dont eat anything... I like to make something i know they will eat so will ask the friend what they like and get a special dessert) Quite fair i think as i know other parents like notice as well.
The older kids know the rule about people coming over and why we have it. But still olly asked yesterday about his friend coming over and i gave him standard yes but next week, ok.
So today he asked again in front of his mate and his mum in front of our house, to which i explained we were having a dinner i couldnt stretch and we would arrange for next week.
I hate being put on the spot like this because it makes me feel like a bad mum
What does everyone else do about friends coming over for tea? Is our rule silly or sensible?
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