Connor has been so much more pleasant to be around today since we spent the afternoon playing snakes and ladders and shopping list game, doing jigsaws, letting him do his own thing (within reason

) with the art stuff, etc. instead of telling him to play with his trains while I try to get some chores done

. So today's housework has been nothing more than a nappy wash and cleaning the loo, but we've had no temper and tears, from either of us, so sod the housework