I'm after a bit of advise or a similar experience response.
Anyway, there are things that Kiara says that we can't work out if it's the truth or not. Not that she lies, but more like sometimes I know she re-creates stories she's heard or scenes she's seen on tv for example.
She's been off sick for 2 days, Monday morning she had a temperature and she'd been coughing the previous day so granted, I wasn't going to take her to school. But when I got home after work, she seemed fine and full of beans. This morning, she didn't have a temperature anymore and she'd been coughing a bit during the night but nothing bad so I got her ready, only to get a text from dh at 9am (I was at work) saying she wasn't well and that he was keeping her off school. He took her to his mum and when I spoke to her she said she was fine and full of beans. And indeed she was quite happy all afternoon., Then just before bedtime, she said to me she had a tummy ache and needed a cuddle. She was burping a bit, we gave her some medicine, the italians here swear by, which is basically solid bits of bicarb of soda that fizz when you put them in water. Anyway, she "seemed" to forget herself every so often and would start talking all happily as usual but if you asked how her tummy was she was saying it was still hurting.
The other thing she's mentionned a couple of time is boys punching her in the chest and in the stomach. But when we asked questions, we couldn't get a straight answer. One minute she'll say they were doing it playfully, the next she says she feels sad about it, then she said she did tell the teacher, then that she didn't..etc It's like she kinds of tells you what you want to hear sometimes.
We asked her if she was happy at school and she sort of said yes and no but it's always an answer that leaves you confused with Kiara.
We just don't know what to think. Is she playing up? Has she cottoned on that she gets attention when ill? Has anything happened at school?
What do you think?
Obviously, dh being the anxious person he is is imagining the worse.
He's going to mention the punching to the teacher tomorrow just to check whether she did report it or not and so that we can get to the bottom of it.
Tomorrow also happens to be her christmas play, surely she's too young to worry about it and play up is she????
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